They're thinking about themselves, so I guess, you know, it took me a while, and now I can go to any gay bar and not really care.
The man in the red panda costume and the lady dressed as juliet were both there.
Twinks and bears ignore them at bars; the upper echelon of beauties barely acknowledge their existence.
Anything more than an average dad-bod or slightly chubby figure seems to stir up a sense of disdain from the majority of goers.
In the United States, there is an annual national event, Convergence, as well as several annual regional gatherings.
Matthew Johnson, 32 Matthew Johnson told me that the fear of being overweight started at home.